Often, out of our greatest rejections comes our greatest direction. When I read this line in the motivational book that I am reading now, it strucks me. Trully, everything that is happening in our lives now is the path that GOD planned for us. When we bumped into a closed door or something is not going on the way that we hoped for, we easily tend to blame it to GOD but we should not and instead look at it as what we call REDIRECTION.
Yes, it will be uncomfortable and hard to accept but if we will see this in a different light it will help you realise that it is really not the right path for you. I am saying this based on what I had experience in love.
I am sharing this personal experience of mine as it might be a little help to you right now. I’ve been in a relationship almost seven years. I really hope that he will be the person that I’m going to spend the rest of my life with. My world fully rotate on him. I relied almost everything on him that’s why when we broke up, I was put in slump, depress, lifeless and hopeless to the point that I am willing to end my life. I don’t know how I will continue to live without him. I’ve been crying my life out and lost the interest to live and go on. But really GOD is the greatest LISTENER.
One night after a deep conversation with the Heavenly Father, I found myself taking the courage to live again. Not for him but for myself and for the purpose that GOD destined for me to fulfill. I fixed myself, love myself even more and change on how I perceived things.
I realised that all the things that happened to me is just a redirection. I’ve come to see the things and blessing that I used to ignore before.
Here are some of my learnings from what happened.
- We cannot give away or share what we don’t have. How can we give the unconditional love to others if we do not love ourselves. This is not only on love but applies to almost anything.
- It is not our fault if people left us. Our flaws and weakness is all part of who we are and GOD is continuously working on us. We should use this flaws to move forward and improve ourselves.
- Once you left the situation and set yourself free from everything, guilt and past, it will be easier for you to live a healthier and happier life. You will learn how to be grateful for every little blessings that you are receiving; be it financially, socially or emotionally. God really is amazing.
Yes, it took me almost two years to finally let everything go and move on with my life. Moving on is really a hard and painful process but if you do not stop taking one step everytime, one day you will see how far you’ve come. We all have different pace and timing but it is important that you are doing something to move forward and stop dwelling on your past.
I still have lots of things to say/share but I do not know if what I am sharing is making any sense. If it reaches you then I am praying that you find it helpful and hoping for you to be better :).
